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Celebrating With Our First Giveaway!

Hello, sweet readers!

I have loved getting to know each of you on the blog and FB page! A big thank you to each of you for helping us reach 100 likes on our FB page. It may seem like such a small accomplishment, but it's huge for this girl who never dreamed she'd be writing for anyone else other than herself. So thank you again! 

I'm giving away a small gift from one of my favorite shops (and one I'm excited to be an affiliate for!), The Daily Grace Co. So head on over to our FB page and comment for a chance to win! 

Enter the giveaway here: Marriage Is Not For Wimps Facebook Page

Much love,
Sarah 


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